“If
I had a formula for bypassing trouble, I would not pass it round. Trouble
creates a capacity to handle it. I don't embrace trouble; that's as bad
as treating it as an enemy. But I do say meet it as a friend, for you'll
see a lot of it and had better be on speaking terms with it.”
~Oliver Wendell Holmes
This week I had to remind myself that the mission that I strive
for and the type of work that I love to do is far more important than any
conflict I may encounter along the way. I find myself fighting the insecurities
that can build up when I analyze how do other people perceive me? Simply by
asking myself that question and over analyzing the possible answers has
prevented me from making my own choices. Instead I become influenced by other
people’s perceptions and assumptions, and I make those opinions matter over my
own.
I have strong work ethics and passion. I have gifts that allow
me to be an amazing person. However, I also have vulnerabilities that have the
potential to subdue my gifts. This is what I encountered this past week.
Conflict entered into my realm of work and I questioned what was I doing here?
I questioned the benefits of the gifts I had been given, and I was ready to
walk away. O, but thankfully I have people who mentor me along the way! Because
I’m telling you I almost walked away and stopped pursuing the type of work that
I know I love to do. Have you been there? Have you felt so compelled to walk
away?
I was just there, and I’m so thankful that I did not. One, I
have to say that conflict only makes you better equipped for future inevitable situations.
Handling it in a professional and sincere demeanor will only strengthen your
capabilities, for it has truly strengthened mine. Two, I must say that walking
away would have put a dent in the mission of multiculturalism which I believe
in so much. How dare I leave something that is bigger than any conflict I may encounter?
This mission touches my heart and the core of who I am. I cling to it as much
as it clings to me. I have an obligation to learn how to deal with conflict,
with self-doubt, and with the perceptions and assumptions of others so that
they will no longer affect my capabilities and strengths.
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